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They felt like pity likes to me — something he was doing to soften the blow. His potentially mindless double-tapping forced me to break our non-contact with a text; I felt pathetic asking him to knock it off. So why did I care so much?

After reading the article and finally having a concrete name for my experience, I discussed the trend with friends and found that most of godo had experienced orbiting themselves, and not always from an ex-romantic partner. My friend Megan recently had an argument with her cousin, but says she still sees her name popping up on Facebook and Instagram. So why do we do this and are there any negative ramifications of being on Lookin for good head maybe more receiving end myabe this common behavior?

If a relationship has been severed in real life, why do people feel the need to keep ties on social media?

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Could it just be human nature? Michelle Crimins, Ph. We are actually wired to gossip, so that part of it is huge.

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We used to only have tabloids, then reality TV. Now, social media is reality TV for people we know. A recent discussion with a friend confirmed this sentiment. All this digitally-created proximity makes it very hard to escape or ignore those very human tendencies.

It becomes harder to move on. For goof, keeping the lines of communication from closing completely may be a way of holding out hope: While reaching out with a text or a call might feel like a bridge too far, watching Instagram stories or liking a Facebook post can serve as a small, positive gesture.

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Orbiting can be a power move when the person doing it knows full well that you will see their name at the top of your list of views. The mixed messages are confusing.

People are constantly confused about how other people handle their social media and what it means to be connected to someone else. Those mixed messages result in mixed feelings.

The orbiting made me feel like he was still interested and created Lookin for good head maybe more false sense of intimacy. Curiosity is not intimacy. Case in point: My friend Amanda recently decided to block a former flame when she realized his orbiting was preventing her from moving on.

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It is the least someone can do to maintain a presence in my life. But it works! I had to cut this guy off Lookin for good head maybe more the orbiting made me feel like he was still interested and created this false sense of intimacy. He was probably just bored, and yet it drove me crazy. It can encourage confirmation basis.

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Black pussy eating With every like, I felt more and more deeply convinced that I was right; he did feel sorry for me. On the flip side, Amanda allowed herself to believe her ex cared because he was watching her Instagram stories.

Neither of us ever found out the reason behind our exes actions — but they did hinder our ability to move on and heal.

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But on Instagram, you only see them at their best. The emotions that crop up when you see someone after a falling out are always difficult, but they are seriously amplified by the way we present ourselves on social media.

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